Hearing the Gods
Since “God Sex” has been a hugely popular post here on Sex, Gods, and Rock Stars, I thought I might start blogging about other aspects of spirit work that I am frequently asked about. It falls in line...
View ArticleDetractors
At some point in your teen years, you come to the realization that you want everyone to like you. You might be willing to change your clothes, your interests, the kinds of music you listen to, in hopes...
View ArticleBreaking Energetic Ties
At some point in our lives, we find ourselves with energetic and spiritual bonds to people, places, and things that don’t serve us anymore. Maybe we’ve had a breakup, or are moving to a new location,...
View ArticleNational Coming Out Day
This is an old joke, at least for me, so I apologize to all of you who have heard it a million times from me before. October 11th is National Coming Out Day. 38 years ago, I celebrated by emerging from...
View ArticleMore Talk About Possession
Maggi Setti has written a very interesting article that goes along nicely with my post Possession, A Rant on a Rant, over at Witchvox.com, one of of the oldest Pagan websites. Her take, called Faking...
View ArticleWhat is “Spirit Work”?
In the theme of writing Spirit Work 101 essays, I figured I should probably back the truck up a bit and do my level best to explain what spirit work is, exactly. The issue I face is that people use the...
View ArticleThe Invisible Third
dedicated to my boyfriend “His Boy”, because he asked for it, and then waited and waited… You tend to end up dating the kind of people you hang out with. Spirit workers and other spooky-woo types tend...
View ArticleBook Review: Dion Fortune’s Book of the Dead (Crossposted)
I am crossposting this on both of my blogs, since the subject matter is germane to both of them in different ways; I have different subscribers on both blogs, so I wanted to make sure no one missed it....
View ArticleA New Beginning: Asking for Help
Friends, family (of blood and of choice), colleagues and clients, fans and stalkers: Rave and I find ourselves in the position of the Tarot’s Fool; on the edge of a cliff about to start out on a new...
View ArticleThat’s a Horse of a Different Color!
Sorry I have been away so long…things in my life have gotten a bit complicated with the upcoming surgery and all, so I haven’t had the spoons or the focus to do much writing. However, this post has...
View ArticleThe Gradients of Life
For now, I am still a madness shaman. Part of that job is to speak for those who struggle with their madness, who suffer from the inside from something our medical science has yet to learn how to treat...
View ArticlePasswords
“Please don’t write about this in your Livejournal.” I remember the day he said this; we were having a pretty big fight and I don’t remember what it was we were fighting about but it meant a lot to me....
View Article“The Witching Hour” and Psychic Quiet
This is still a raw thought, something I’ve been tossing around in my head for a few days (well, nights really, as you’ll see) and I’m curious to see if others experience something similar. My partner...
View ArticleWork
So often, when someone wants something spiritual to happen to them, us grumpy kids tell them they’ve got to do ‘the Work’ in order to achieve it. Yet, how often do we really stop and define what that...
View ArticleThe Broken Lock
It happened by accident; she went to remove her collar for a visit with her family, and the tiny key broke off in the lock. Luckily, she hasn’t been asked to remove it since then, like being somewhere...
View Articlethe problem with polynormativity
Reblogged from Sex Geek: Polyamory is getting a lot of airtime in the media these days. It’s quite remarkable, really, and it represents a major shift over the last five to ten years. The problem—and...
View ArticleDel in Person! Appearances in 2013!
This past week has seen a lot of activity in my inbox from events that want to schedule a Del appearance, so I thought I’d keep you up to date on places where you can see me in person! Some of these...
View ArticleAre the cameras ever off?
About a year or so ago, I found myself in a discussion with other kink educators. Someone had posted a rant about how they wanted the ability to play in public without having to keep their “educator...
View ArticleSacrifice
There’s been an uptick in my network of colleagues; people who range from being mildly worried to furiously angry when they ask “How do I get a Godphone/hear the Gods better/develop Sight/become a...
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